
Free to fly where she wants. I wish my life were more like a birds life. Gary always says ‘where ever the wind blows thats where I go’… I wish that statement were more true. I really wish I could act on my every whim. I’m pretty good about doing what I want, but as a somewhat responsible adult I do have limits. I no longer just get up and go when I feel like it. Oh to be free and 21 again.
On my Tuesday evening drive home, I was behind a VW Golf, plastered with ‘save then environment’, ‘vegan’s rule’ and ‘anti bush’ stickers. This car would have you believe that the woman driving was a hemp wearing, vegan eating, super hippie. WRONG. She was smoking, and tapped her ashes out the window, and when she finished her ‘delicious’ cancer stick, she threw the butt out the window. I’M TOTALLY SERIOUS! How can people be such hypocrite’s? How can health conscious people smoke? I leave you to ponder these questions, because I have more interesting things to blog about.
I stayed home sick from work yesterday, I awoke with a not so good feeling and stayed in bed until 10am. Then I went from bed to couch, picked up a book by Tucker Max called ‘I hope they serve beer in hell’ and spent the rest of the day immersed in that book. My sister lent it to me a few weeks ago and I’m still not sure what to really say about it. I wanted to like it, it was well written but so degrading to women. It amazes me that there is this world of drunks and ho’s out there. I mean seriously, can one man drink that much, cause that much trouble and sleep with that many women? BUT as long as he’s happy… that is the Law of Attraction, and he’s obviously getting what he wants!
I spent the rest of the day thinking have I ever dated or slept with someone like Tucker Max? When I was in college I definitely enjoyed myself but I always prided myself on my choice of men. I preferred intellects and passionate artists and pretty much stayed in that social group. BUT that does not mean none of them were man-whores. And after reading this book, it appears that I may never have known if they were or weren’t. Unbelievable.
My Wednesday (which was also my sister’s birthday… happy one day late birthday Sabrina), ended with a scenario that could have easily been in Tucker Max’s book. Gary and I found ourselves at Myst, a club in Scottsdale, photographing a body painting event. Upon arrival, it was slow, but within an hour, naked girls were everywhere, walking around with thongs and tape over their nipples and that was it. We were in the back room, a private room where the painting was happening. Flocked red and gold wallpaper, fancy chandeliers, pool tables and many many mirrors.
I don’t want to say anything bad or negative about the event, just because it’s not my cup of tea, it was definitely interesting. I think one of the greatest things about being a photographer are the situations I find myself in. I would never have attended that event. I would never have gone into Myst if it weren’t for that event. I would never have associated with women like that if it weren’t for this event.
I cannot believe how thin they were. How on earth do you get and stay that thin? One of the girls in particular, had an absolutely stunning body. It was perfect. There was also this girl Julie, I’ve seen her before and recognized that she had a Pablo Luna bag, he’s a local designer, so we started talking. I could not remember where I saw her before but then it hit me, she was at that Graffiti fashion opening at the Phoenix Art Museum this past fall. I definitely remember her because I remember thinking, wow, she is gorgeous.
The weirdest part of the evening were the other photographers milling around. I know that my boyfriend was enjoying the models, but so was I. Except we were doing it tastefully. The other two photographers, one who didn’t even have a professional camera were taking photos of their nipples, doing booty shots when the girls weren’t looking and posing them on the couches and pool tables in a pornographic manner. AND one of the photographers had the nerve to tell me “it must be nice having an assistant” and he was talking about me. He should happy I didn’t give him some serious attitude right then. He doesn’t know anything about me, I am NOBODY’S ASSISTANT! Yes, in these situations Gary is the photographer and I am the stylist/media person, but I am not an assistant.
I did meet some interesting new people and for that I am always grateful. I forget his name, but he owns a clothing company and is always looking for new photographers. Jay, was one of the painters, who recently relocated to Phoenix. Benjamin was the mover and shaker of the event. I have a feeling we’ll be doing more work with him and our interesting photography events will continue to grow.
We’re shooting a dog fashion show for him next Sunday. I am looking forward to that, I think it will be quite the event.
And that’s the end of another exciting day in my life. Although living on 3 hours of sleep and not showering this morning, is hopefully not the highlight of this Valentine’s Day.